It’s not that they’re vain or hung up on societal ideas about weight, it’s more than not exercising shows that you don’t really care about yourself enough to keep your body healthy (even if that’s not true). If you’ve both got a couple of extra pounds, you better be prepared to work on your own weight if you’re going to ask her to work on hers.
You can always learn a new talent too. Drawing is a good one, since it is a skill that can be learned, rather than something that really requires innate talent.
If you’re going to insist on playing COD, you better plan on becoming a championship winning competitive player because that’s basically what it’s going to take.
Hang with your friends. Gotta get in that COD time, after all. Hang out alone. At last! Peace and quiet! Underwear rock out party time! Do things you enjoy. This is a great time to develop those skills that women find so attractive.
A good rule of thumb is that if you wouldn’t say something to your mom, don’t say it to a woman you’re not dating.
