Dresses (fit & flare dresses with a belt) are sweet too. Try to wear hosiery rather than bare legs. Go for the classic sheer look and avoid patterns. Tan or nearly black are also great colours to choose. Your skirt will help you enjoy the feeling of having your legs on display while keeping you comfortable. Wear flat shoes if you don’t like heels. The key is to choose something simple and classy. If you can pull off the “just rolled out of bed” look, use it. If you can’t, don’t do it! Don’t wear anything that hides your shape. Whatever you wear, people should be able to tell you’ve put some time and effort into putting your look together.
If you’re really opposed to makeup, make sure your lips are moist by wearing lip balm whenever you can.
A pretty silk scarf Pearl earrings or other studs A cute headband A ribbon hair barrette Some bracelets Rings that are cute, but not too chunky or flashy A simple and cute necklace A smile! Smiling can make you look wonderful, as well as make you confident.
Loving every inch of your body doesn’t have to mean flaunting your body or showing it off every chance you get. It just means loving how you look and being comfortable in your own skin. [2] X Research source If you’re a girl, don’t think that you can’t work out because it’s not ’ladylike’. Taking a yoga class, a dance class or running or swimming or even going to the gym for a few minutes will get you more in touch with your feminine side and will make you love your body even more.
Never look like you rushed to get your look together in time or put on makeup or comb your hair in front of your friends because you didn’t have time to do it before.
Part of being confident means mastering the body language of a confident person. Walk with your head high, smile and look straight ahead of you, not down at the floor. [3] X Research source Being confident doesn’t mean being arrogant. You don’t have to brag about your accomplishments to make people see how confident you are.
This doesn’t mean that you should focus your energies to taking care of other people. It just means that when the time comes to be a caretaker, you should be prepared.
If you’re eating dinner in a group setting, make sure you say, “Please pass the chicken,” instead of reaching and invading another person’s personal space. Find a nice way to give negative feedback. Instead of saying, “Will you shut up already?” say, “Would you mind lowering your voice?” Avoid burping in public. Once you reach a certain age, burping in public is not funny anymore. If it happens by accident, just say “Excuse me,” or “Pardon me. " Avoid rolling your eyes or generally being rude when someone is saying something you don’t really want to hear.
Start to change the way you think. Is the subject matter you want to discuss appropriate for polite company? No? Steer clear and think of something else. Is it crude or crass or inappropriate? Yes? Don’t say anything. Start to train your mind to rethink things that aren’t feminine.
You don’t have to go overboard. Just give a compliment whenever the mood strikes you.
A truly feminine person doesn’t need to show off for the compliments to come.
Being polite doesn’t mean you’re restricted from talking about certain topics. Just ton’t talk about anything overly vulgar, curse too much or bring up inappropriate topics in the wrong company.
While you’re saying comforting words, you should also behave in a comforting manner. Don’t be afraid to put your arm around the person or to use your body language to show how sympathetic you are if it’s appropriate.
